2 posts tagged “parenting”

If I had a daughter I would tell her to understand she is a gift from God. I would instill that in her from the day she is born. There would be no competition between us as far as winning daddy’s affections or proving I am the better female. I would tell her there was a time it was considered a curse to have a daughter verses having a son. But that time is over because now the female child can be adored, respected and looked upon as intelligent.

I would tell her to always know she is a unique creation of God and God is something or someone deep in her heart. I would teach her to value this invisible presence at all times and to shield it from the temptations of the world. First and foremost she must always understand that boys are totally different than girls in more ways than just physical. I would let her know each year of her life requires a different understanding of the male species.

First of all, the boy is a hunter and he thrives to satisfy his senses. It is human nature for him to desire to devour her body but it does not mean you should surrender it to him, especially when God is your first love. I would teach her to understand it is normal to feel sensations in her distinguished female areas of her body that the male yearns to touch and explore. But understand this is human nature. This urgency is the continuation of the human species. Know precious daughter it is not your responsibility to give your body away for this natural process. The alluring of the eyes of the beholder and his strong desire to have you is no different than what happens with the animals in the jungle. It is called mating to bring forth life.

True, it appears romantic and magical when you read about it or watch it on TV. This is just a smoke screen to sedate you as your soul, spirit and relationship with God is compromised for a moment of lustful fulfillment. Once the sperm is released, things are never the same because God was not in it and He was put on hold while your self-value is dropped. Before you take off those panties, remember you are not alone. God is there and hoping He is chosen over satisfying the lusts of the flesh of another.

Once you have allowed yourself to become naked before the eyes of a male, you risk the chance of being an instrument for sexual pleasure and never seen as a flower again. The boys share their experiences with one another as though their experience was a just reward for all their efforts for cunning you into his bed. Virginity is special for it represents oneness with God. God has something for you when you wait for your mate and trust Him to choose him for you.

There are other things going on in life for God’s children besides sweating between sheets. There is much to be done in bringing light into a world where God was not considered instead of sex. The outcome is greed, lust, drugs, sexual abuse and hate. All just because one girl, someone’s daughter did not value herself as a child of God. Honor yourself. See the opposite sex as a means to exercise spiritual truth not sexual arousal for the outcome is illegitimate children and a cry for the father to be in their lives. Go in to the world knowing God is with you always. If only someone had told them.

Love is real. It is not based on being wanted and needed. It is based on a silent knowingness that together we can make a difference in this world. My daughter, your most important homework assignment is finding out whom or what God is and living it each day of your life.

I was watching a talk show with a mother and a twelve-year old daughter as guests on the show.  The daughter was excited about her pronounced position to be identified as a bisexual person.  The mother was a lesbian and told the audience she believes her daughter is a lesbian as well.  She told them she started out thinking she was bisexual before finally realizing she in fact was a lesbian.

They were proud of their freedom to be. It is amazing how society preps us to indulge in our sexual appetites no matter what they may be.  First we had gay men coming out of closets, then we had lesbians declaring their preference.  Now, we have bisexuals declaring their right to enjoy both sexes.  The latter reveals the most greediest human being of all.  They are not satisfied with one.  They must have both.  Over indulgence of sexual activity is revealing mankind is not satisfied with anything tasted continuously.

Children are being directed into a world of sexuality unnecessarily.  They are not being given a chance to fully develop as total beings.  Sexual preference should be the farthest thing from their minds especially with the perverted activities going on with adults today.  What we are facing is the continued reality that mankind is still struck by the Eve complex found in the Garden of Eden.

She saw the fruit of the tree and Found it to be pleasing to the eyes and once she bit into the fruit found it to be delicious.  Just as we enjoy selecting sexual preferences and tendencies to pleasing our senses, we must pay the price for such choices.  And what is that price? The price we pay is having a dangerous and perverted society seeking to fulfill huge appetites of lust.  Children are being lost to this over indulging and out of control lifestyle. 

With no boundaries and foundations established, society is preparing to be infested with maturing heathens who will not care what anybody thinks or feel about them.  Siblings are raping siblings and children are being targeted like appetizers as adults draw near to them knowing they are sexually active in their lives.

As far as I am concerned Bi-sexual tendencies confirm the greedy conscious we live in today. It is not about loving a person anymore it is about tasting them for a while.  While she's with her, she is thinking about him and when she is with him, she is thinking about her.  No totality in a relationship can ever happen.  Who cares?  I just want some satisfaction and I want it now.